Positive Talk with Children

Positive talk with children can be elusive.  Often, we get lost in the busy “to do list’ of our lives.  When our children don’t follow directions or listen to us, we fall into the usual negative talk.  “Stop that now.”  “Don’t touch that.” “Leave me alone.” Arguments, yelling, and fighting can take place.

It’s impossible to stop all the frustrating times with our children.  However, remembering that sometimes we can change our reaction or approach, can prevent us from feeling bad.  And positive talk prevents some of the negative feelings our children develop from constant negative talk.  In addition positive talk with children involves the crucially important skill of listening.  Other important aspects of positive talk with children include remembering that you’re talking with a child, asking questions, acknowledging feelings, teaching alone time, giving praise, and making apologies.  Read more …